Fighting for Fathers’ Rights: Finding Security After Divorce

Posted by Steven D. Eversole | Nov 25, 2013 | 0 Comments

When facing divorce, men must be prepared for a whole host of issues that many women do not have to confront. In addition to the personal and even physical issues that can afflict men during and after divorce, in many jurisdictions they are still facing additional challenges. Men may have a harder time protecting their rights to custody. If they were breadwinners in the past, they could also be strapped with an unaffordable alimony bill.

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If you are a man in Alabama entering the divorce process, it is important to have an experienced advocate and representative on your side. A Birmingham fathers' rights attorney is dedicated to helping men regain equal footing in court and protect their rights to custody and financial security.

As a father, it is important to have a clear understanding of your rights and obligations before you enter the divorce process. Recent studies have shown that divorced men are also more susceptible to heart disease, high blood pressure, and strokes than men who are married. Psychologists have demonstrated that divorce men could take unnecessary risks or even have suicidal tendencies. Though these statistics are alarming, anyone who is ready to divorce knows that it is better than staying in a bad marriage, despite the stress.

One way to counter the personal and physical ailments that seem to affect divorced men, is to protect your rights. This can provide you with the sound financial footing you need to move forward and start a new life. For many divorcees, stress comes from the fear of being alone and dividing income. Rest assured that if you protect your rights and finances, you will have an easier time moving on with your life.

If you have children, you may fear losing custody or having unfair visitation rights. Though courts are becoming more aware of the equal parenting roles between parents, judges and juries can be prejudice, favoring the idea of a mother having sole custody of children. If you are looking to protect your custody and visitation rights, you need an advocate who understands your unique circumstances and who can demonstrate that your desires are in the best interests of your children.

In addition to protecting your custody rights, you want to protect your interests when it comes to division of property and any decisions regarding alimony or spousal support. If you were the sole breadwinner, you need an advocate who can effectively defend your financial well-being. Even though child support payments are based on a formula, spousal support requirements can be subjective. An advocate can make sure that your earnings are accurately reported and that you are not responsible for obligations you cannot afford.

Men may face very different challenges before and after the divorce; but being prepared can help you protect your rights and interests now and in the future. In addition to getting appropriate legal help, you can also seek out additional professional assistance. A financial planner can help you organize for life as a single person and be prepared for additional expenses. You may also find it helpful to seek out professional counseling. Fathers going through divorce face additional challenges and there is a wide network of support to help you through this transition.

If you are seeking a divorce in Birmingham, contact Family Law Attorney Steven Eversole at (866) 831-5292.

About the Author

Steven D. Eversole

J.D., Samford University's Cumberland School of Law, Birmingham, Alabama B.A., University of Alabama, Tuscaloosa, Alabama


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